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On Friday, Jess and I joined Pastor Tim and Beth for a road trip from New Stanton to Lancaster, PA for our district Pastors & Wives Retreat at the Eden Resort.

It was great!

Our speaker for the weekend was Dr. H.B. London of Focus on the Family. He had just recently recovered from a 15-day stay in the ICU and a near-death experience. We were incredibly blessed to have him as our keynote for the weekend.

Jess and I were also blessed to stay in the “Lancaster Suite” at the Eden Resort – a BIG step up from the “normal” rooms, I’m sure. We were upgraded to the suite due to an error in them having our room booked. Seems that we caused them a bit of confusion when we registered AND my parents (who are also on our district) registered. Apparently they can only handle one set of “Sheets”.

I took notes at each of our rallies and look forward to re-working some of what I learned this weekend from Dr. London into blog-posts and maybe even some messages!

On Saturday we had most of the day to ourselves, so we carpooled with my parents and enjoyed some of the sights, smells, and tastes of Lancaster! We ate lunch at Dieners – a classic blast-from-the-past for me. We also enjoyed visiting “The Outhouse” – probably my favorite store in the whole state! Of course we walked through the Bird-in-Hand Farmer’s Market and bought some whoopie pies at the Bird-in-Hand Bakery, too.

Some pics from the weekend:

From 20090320 – Pastors & Wives Retreat
From 20090320 – Pastors & Wives Retreat
From 20090320 – Pastors & Wives Retreat
From 20090320 – Pastors & Wives Retreat

at_dvd“Boy am I glad I’m out of High School!” That was the thought I had again and again while watching “American Teen” – a documentary following 5 High School students from Warsaw, Indiana during their Senior year. We were still living in Warsaw when the filming of this film and I kept forgetting to find it on DVD until a few weeks ago when I found it for around $10 online.

The week the DVD arrived in the mail, Jess and I made time to sit and watch this to see what familiar sights and sounds we could see as well as to understand a bit more of the student culture we’re still involved with in ministry!

The film focused around these five teens’ lifestyle choices, relationship situations, and school-life – three areas that are relevant to students today. Knowing that, I think that youth pastors/leaders should all find time to view this film! It gave great insight into some behind-the-scenes life that takes place outside of our influence. Watching it influenced me to pray even harder for our students as they make their way through their school-years!

I was disappointed that the documentary missed any positive-spiritual influence in these teens’ lives (if there was any). The spiritual-focus seemed to stay camped out on the young lady who claimed to be an atheist. I was embarrassed knowing that none of these students ever came through my youth ministry while I was in Warsaw. Jess and I both think that one of the sub-plot characters had visited our youth ministry a few times – so that was an interesting connection!

It was, of course, fun to see some of Warsaw’s sights through the film and to reminisce about our time there.

called_outAs a new Anne Rice fan and after having read her two previous works since her re-conversion to Christianity, I jumped at the opportunity to pick up her new book, “Called Out of Darkness”.

The book is her personal memoir of her coming back from an atheistic belief and to once-again relying on the transforming power of Jesus Christ as her Lord and Savior!

Rice’s childhood story is fascinating. Getting this “behind the scenes” glimpse into the life of this famous author and one of my personal favorites was nothing short of terrific.

My Protestant-self had to re-read specific details numerous times and I couldn’t relate to every situation Ms. Rice had growing up or in her conversion, or in her hunger for “the stigmata”, but the stories and “real-life-ness” of the book made it overwhelmingly beneficial for me to read.

Oh to sit down with Ms. Rice with a cup of coffee and enjoy a conversation!

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I spent last Thursday, Friday and Saturday in Baltimore, MD and then in Washington, DC for “FUEL” – our Wesleyan Church’s youth pastor training conference that happens each year.

Josh LeRoy was our speaker on Thursday night and Friday morning and brought us some good words of encouragement.

John Wood closed out the event on Friday evening with a challenging take on what the Kingdom of Heaven means for us today and how that should affect our everyday lives.

We had the privilege of having Pastor Dave Bever and the New City Band as our worship leaders for the weekend. They were incredibly unique and each exampled hearts of those who are actively pursuing God with all that they have! I had a few interactions with them outside of rally-time and heard stories about God doing incredible things in their lives.

Of course the reconnecting, resourcing, and relationship-building with other youth leaders from across the Northeast was a highlight of the weekend, too. Numerous conversations, pee-your-pants laughter, and great meals were shared throughout the weekend making it awesome.

It was great to connect with some of my district-guys, too. It’s tough being in relationship with guys in your district when the closest other youth pastor is 2+ hours away! Our trip down to Baltimore and my Saturday touring-of-DC with two of my district buds was worth the effort for sure!

With the conference over on Saturday morning, Dave Finlay and Richard Cox and myself drove the 45-minutes from Baltimore to Washington and spent the morning and afternoon touring some of the sites. We enjoyed ourselves and had planned on worshiping that night at National Community Church where Mark Batterson pastors.

We were able to get seats at their 5PM service (others had to sit on the floor!) and get to enjoy hearing Batterson live in that service! We even had the privilege of meeting Pastor Mark and Ebenezer’s new campus-pastor.

It was tough being away from my wife and daughter for the weekend, but the time was well-spent and I walked away with renewed energy and vision for the ministry God is continuing to empower me to lead!

I posted pictures of the weekend on Facebook:
FUEL, Day 1
FUEL, Day 2
Touring Washington, DC

My buddy Joe Kesselhon sent me this great link to a news video about his sister-in-law’s battle with cancer and their family’s choice to put LIFE first and trust God with their whole-selves.

Check out WDIO’s news story about Lora Kesselhon.